Dan, I think you missed my point, rather than the other way around. What I'm trying to say is that something about this thread is fundamentally selfish - not in a bad way, really, but it's all about "What can I get out of Scotland?", not "What, if anything, can I give back?" Most tourism of any kind is self-centered, to be fair, but it's worth pointing out that the stereotypical American who eats at McDonalds and plays nothing but "trophy" courses and the other golfer who seeks out Scottish company and goes off the beaten path both do so because that's the experience they want, or at least think they want. When you play with the local Scots, do you stop and think about what you might have to offer them in terms of friendship and hospitality, or do you primarily think in terms of e.g. gaining knowledge and experience about another culture, golfing and otherwise? Knowing the sort of person who hangs around this website, a good many of you probably do the former, which is great - the point, though, is that until you take that step and think about the other guy, whoever he is, you're not a better person (or golfer) for wanting to see "the real Scotland" than you would be if you were staying at Greywalls and playing with your millionaire buddies at Muirfield.
Cheers,
Darren