I know my limitations. I see no reason to play so far back that I cannot reach a par-4 in 2 shots [if i WILL or not is problematic, of course, but I insist it be possible]. I hit a good drive 190 - 200yd. My 5-wood makes maybe 175 on a nice flight. So 360-370 is my upper limit. That generally translates to not playing over 5600 - 5700 yds.
If this means FRONT tees, I am not too proud to play them [and often do]. The good news is, with front tee comes the occasional 280 yd par-4. That's 3-wood and PW for me. See what I mean?
One of the things I like about Hurdzan courses [and I am certain others consider it too] is that he seems to keep most of the 'features' in play for we short hitters too. I have played a lot of his courses and as yet have not been sorry.
So; do not be proud. It is not 'LADIE's' tees, it is FORWARD tees. Hey, are they told they may not play from 'MEN's' tees?
Just a little anecdote: I was at Fox Run [slope 143] and we were teeing from the front. A group of 4 young men teeing from the tips are making derogatory noises. THEN they teed off. Ground balls, duck hooks, and crys of rage rang out! I didn't even give them a look of pity [I am, of course, way too classy for that]
. But I assure you I could have beaten any of the four from any tee, and poor a golfer as I am.
Golf is fun in so many ways.
Doug