I'd agree that many who frequent this site do share the experiences, sentiments, and quandaries that Ted presents.
I can say emphatically that I do not.
Oh, I am interested in architecture for sure - in fact if fascinates me. And I have studied it 100 times more in these last few years frequenting this forum than in all of my prior years. I most definitely am interested in MacKenzie, MacDonald, Raynor, Tillinghast, Ross, Thompson, Travis, Flynn, Colt, et. al. and I have studied their work.
BUT... none of that changes this one undeniable fact, for me anyway:
Golf remains in the playing. All the study in the world is never going to match actually playing the game. I love architecture, I LIVE to play the game. That is a subtle yet huge difference.
So no, games with friends who don't know a redan from a sedan - which happen often for me - are absolutely no less fun than games with architecture buffs - in some ways, the former are MORE fun as we actually play and bet and compete, rather than dissect mounds and the like.
But again, it's about the playing.
And the last time I turned down a golf game anywhere and with anyone for which I actually had a kitchen pass would have been the first. I will - and do - play anywhere. Certainly rounds at architecturally interesting courses have a leg up on those at the crap courses around me, but the latter still mean playing the game, and that still means joy is to be found. I've said it before and I'll say it again: I could have fun playing this game on a parking lot, if the friends are right and the beer is cold.
So I try to understand you architecture snobs, but I never will really get you. And v'ive le difference (if I spelled that correctly).