Travel with only one very good friend who allows you to make all the plans: flights cars, courses starting times, hotels.
Travel only with low maintenance people.
Go to GB&I.
Unless the person, others, have never been to the area and want to play as many courses as possible, stay and pay where you don't need to drive to far each day.
Meet locals at the clubs.
Stay in B&Bs if you can. It is easy to get to know the local culture better.
Keep a couple of days free to be able to play a course you have never heard of or a club of a local you have met.
Tommy,
Great post. I totally agree with your point about low maintenance.
I once had a friend ask me to take him to Ireland. I was a bit concerned. Didn’t know him real well and he seemed a bit formal.
So, I told him, I would be happy to take him to Ireland, but I wasn’t at all into making tee times. We would just go with the flow and I assured him, things would go well.
Sure enough, my theory and his patience got tested. We showed up at Dooks and asked to play. The pro told us it wasn’t a convenient time and we should come back in a few days.
Ok, I said. No problem (as my friend semi freaked out).
I then asked the pro for directions to Inch. He immediately wanted to know why I was asking. I told him a friend from Ballybunion said I should go see it.
Well, that was the Magic I needed. The pro said we could tee off in about 5 minutes, but would have to put up with 3-4 year olds playing the first three holes.
My friend couldn’t quite believe what had happened, but we had a wonderful time and why not? Dooks is heaven!