Don,
Well, of course publicly suggest I am not truthful, just as you suggested, based on a recent post that I create necessary work to bill more from my clients. Talk of tall tales! It seems you have a need to imply to the world something bad about me after every one of my well intended posts meant to clarify something for others, even when I basically agree with you. Of course, I don't appreciate your untruths, and feel the need to say something to balance/correct the record.
For the record, I do conduct weekly meetings, etc. as you suggest, and of course an all hands on deck approach with great communication is ideal. But personalities and professional experience always come into play and not every job ends up rainbows and bunny rabbits.
Sometimes you do get a less experienced architect with a more experienced contractor, and/or super, or vice versa. And, and not taking a broad swipe at either contractors or superintendents who I respect, but some (like the population in general) either love conflict and create it, or hate conflict and avoid it, when teamwork is required, but suffers.
In a big ego business, sometimes, competing personalities do end up on a job together. And in those cases, (maybe 3-6 in 60 projects) it becomes something I need to handle, even if I meet with them privately after the public meeting (if I recognize it at the time) All goes into the project management skills both you and I have to employ in our own situations.
I still have life long friends in the Biz solely from developing great synergy with them on the project, and having fun while doing great work. Over 60 major jobs, it's inevitable that 10% are great, 80% are pretty good with problems, and 10% go worse than you would like. It sounds like every job you have done comes out perfect, so good for you.
It is pretty clear, that despite my respect for you and your talents, we would have no chemistry, and no owner should ever be saddled with both you and me on a project, even when by many measures, we would have great complimentary contributory talents. Clearly, neither the architect and contractor would do their best work under the circumstances.