Jug,
Firstly, a valid point, my apologies for not responding sooner.
I guess it's how we define 'receptive' and 'fair'. Is receptive and fair when a shot, whether well struck or semi-well struck lands and half-plugs in a green or leaves a small crater? Not to me. This is excessively soft, overly-receptive. Is receptive and fair when a well struck shot lands and bounces clean through the green without any kind of even minor indentation in the putting surface? This is probably, unless significantly downwind, overly firm - although in some areas of the globe it would probably be okay if the course lay-out permits you to play the ground game into and around the greens.
I would suggest, at the risk of daggers to the heart, that if lower handicappers want it soft/receptive then that is perhaps because it better suits their own personal game, ie is fair to them. There are many, many skilful lower handicappers who can play in any ground conditions and circumstances, there are also some low handicappers however, who are only low handicappers because they hit it miles (and high) but have poor course management, and as I said in my earlier post, "like the greens soft to help their rubbish shorts games" - they'd be in my 20% grouping rather than my 80%.
All the best