Ron...that was funny!!!
Jud...thanks for the compliments!! But regarding missing a 3 footer in 95 degree heat with a big hangover...
First off, I very, very rarely drink, so the hangover is out.
Secondly, I realize that I am not good at golf and never will be. A good friend of mine is a former All-American golfer and a VERY good amateur competitive golfer, so I know what a "good" golfer looks like. I am not that and never will be, so loosing money, missing putts, hitting driver OB doesn't bother me (too much
)...Hagen said that he knew he was going to mis-hit 7 shots during each and every round so when those mis-hits came they didn't bother him as he knew they were coming. If he had 7 mis-hits, I probaly have 18!!
Finally, I look at golf as a test of character. The Klein quote is what I try to remember, "it isn't how well you play, but how well you handle how you play". When we played at Chechessee Creek, I had a rough round. I hit 90 on a par 70 course. I was in every bunker (it seemed like). I missed a hole in one by inches, literally inches, and the ball slowly, slowly, slowly, rolled past the hole, down hill, ever so slowly turned towards a bunker, and trickled in. That to me was frustrating...real frustrating. But as I approached the green, I got my mind right and hit a decent bunker shot and moved on.
Having no illusions that I am good helps reduce the frustrations of hitting bad shots.
I am a real high stress guy do to my business and competitive nature, but my "striving to be great" efforts go towards business not golf. Golf is my escapse, my hobby, frankly my passion. I don't want to ruin that by putting to many expectations on it.
Does that make sense?