I belong to a couple of Italian American organizations (I'm half Italian/half Irish)
I received that chain letter from the Order of the Sons of Italy in America, and wrote back telling Barrata and their lawyer, Schiro - who wrote me, that they were lame in their response and appeared to be completely oversensitive. I think that ethnic organizations should quite looking so hard to be offended by these innocuous turns of a phrase. I informed them that I feel they have lowered themselves to the tactics of Al Sharpton, looking for every little transgression to play victim. You may like Miller's bluntness of commentating or not, but I don't see that he should be taken as offensive in this case, whatsoever.
OSIA and NAIF are out to lunch on this one. They should stick to objecting to IAs constantly being projected as mafia thugs by the big wig Italian directors like Scorsese and leave alone the criticizing of guys that have to blather about golf for 5 hours at a time, off the top of their heads, and clearly mean no malice.