Aaron,
From a fellow young attorney with a wife and a 2 yr. old daughter, go to Scotland.
While I haven't had the pleasure of going to Bandon, I have done some golf trips in the U.S. before. This past May, however, I took my first golf trip to Scotland. An eye-opening experience in every conceivable sense of the phrase. The golf is great, the people and the experiences are better.
We did a 7 day trip, including travel days. So, we had roughly 6 1/2 days of golf. Ours was a 2-base trip, St. Andrews and Royal Dornoch -- 4 days in St. Andrews and 2 days in Dornoch. We played Lundin Links, Elie, TOC, Jubilee, North Berwick, Royal Aberdeen, Cruden Bay, Brora and Royal Dornoch. In hindsight, I might have liked our trip better if we had skipped Royal Aberdeen and Cruden Bay, opting to spend an extra day in Dornoch. But that being said, it was still the most amazing experience of my golfing life.
I did all the planning for the trip myself. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to contact me.
Have fun!