2. Take Tom Doak's advice very seriously. Enjoy the courses you play from wherever you play them. Even if you think you are God's gift to golf, you'll find that the best links courses will expose some part of your game, even if you are hitting wedges into most of the par-4s. Hey, even Matt Ward sort of agrees with us!
Ok - sure do love flying making all of the arrangements, flying 3,000 miles, paying triple the local rate, and "Sir, we ask that you play at 6,000 yards." Good fun threading 4 irons! my game is exposed when I am forced to make good driver swings. It is also exposed with a lack of patience in laying up hole after hole after hole. I am not a 0-2 hcp, but a 3-6 hcp who carries the ball 286 at sea level with flat wind. 90% of my tee shots are findable.
I play in 3-5 PGA TOUR Pro-Ams a year, and it's the same deal with the way that they set up the courses. "Come to Disneyworld, but you can only go on the kiddie rides." If I paid all of that $ to play in one of those events for the chance to play along the Yankees in the big ballyard in the Bronx, I sure don't want to be shunted to the LL field in MacCombs Dam Park right outside the Yankee Stadium.
That said, go play the ladies tees once this year in a beer round with 3 of you your buddies. It's like making love with a condom: "It was nice, but I really didn't feel anything."
JWK