Tom Paul,
You might be seeing a more native environment that consists of blue stems, wild ryes, switchgrass, indiangrass. a much more natural grassing scheme as compared to fescues, however it wants to be tall so it needs to be out away from play as much as possible.
Dunlop,
In the NE it has been successful seeding the fesues at about 60 lbs. per acre to keep it thin yet wispy, easy to find the ball. You might consider mowing down the Kentucky and then basamid the area, let it dies, aerify it then seed right into the dead grass, the dead matting provides an excellent seedbed, the basimid fixes nitrogen in the matting and you have an instant source of fertilizer. Irrigation for establishment is key, even if you never use the heads again it is worth the investment to install for grow-in.