For me, Rustic Canyon jumps to mind. Challenging, but rarely "hard" or "punishing." Wide so that as your swing gets tired, the fairway may still contain a wayward drive. Mostly downhill over the last few holes (though the trek up to the 16th tee the third time would be a chore). Has a ton of ways to play it, so that you could easily say, for example on the third go round, let's just play with 3 clubs. (I have played 36 in a day there and made an effort to deliberately play multi option holes differently in the second round). And an abundance of holes that you want another shot at after playing them, even if you scored well.
Then on the second day you'd get new hole locations which makes a lot of the holes play quite differently.