I think a key for me is a sense of permanency - same staff for years - same members you see all the time in the clubhouse - etc etc - I think the active membership needs to be fairly low to achieve this ideal balance. Certain clubs have this nailed - not entirely by design, I'm sure but some of it will be. Not a big active membership meaning plenty of times on the time sheet, familiar faces etc. ......
If we are all committed to the up, down and all over the place nature of the global economy, then how can or does permanency exist? For many if not most, I think the temporary "consumer" nature of the new private club is here to stay.
Or has the ranks of the permanent "aristocracy" thinned out as the old bunch has died off?