Jud:
This is a friend of my brother, but not someone I have ever met or even talked to. From what my brother told me, meeting men really isn't her objective. Getting away from work, playing golf and visiting Scotland are really what this is about.
I thought of Bandon as possible alternative to Scotland (or Ireland). Chris Johnston also reached out to me and suggested Dismal River.
Still haven't made up my mind on the best advice to give, though I do tend to favor settling in at one location rather than running around to see many courses as many Americans tend to do on their first visit.