I don't know if I like the word "own" to describe what the great ones want me to feel.
I have a very hard time trying to describe the difference between good and great...and to be clear, I like good golf courses. They don't have to be great to be enjoyable.
But, the great ones are different and to me it seems like its because they are more then about golf shots. They are back drops, peek a boo looks at something cool you'll experience later, vistas, pacing, and yes, history...the great ones keep you in the moment...I remember when I first played Pac Dunes, I lost track of what hole I was on and really didn't know what I was relative to par, I was just enjoying the course.
Athletes will tell you they play their best when they are in a "zone"...I describe that zone as being completely in the moment, not thinking about the past or future, just experiencing and reacting to what it happening now. When a course is so good and so enjoyable that I get lost within it, that's when I think its truly great. That's a high bar, but then I think the work great is overused.