I'll chime in.....
As for Tom's question about "guidelines" for over the top, acceptable, etc. I think he, and 99% of the people in the biz can distinguish without the help of this group. If I feel the slightest bit uncomfortable doing something, then I don't do it. As the old joke goes, if it smells, looks, and tastes like poop, then.....
If there were really anyone who participated here that has the $100,000 available to join some of these expensive clubs that are supposedly being promoted here, I am not aware of it.....and if someone has the $10 mil necessary to build a golf course (I know there are a few exceptions to both) then self laudatory/promotional posts could be considered marketing and salesmanship.
I have never considered this a venue that is going to land me loads of contracts, I just do it for fun and edumacation. The proof is in the fact that I actually tell the truth as I see it, rather than parrot the well known "party line" here. Hey, if I wanted to sell to the group that comes on here, I wouldn't have posted half the stuff I have.....BTW, If I am wrong, omigod, about no real clients being on here, please let me know ASAP!

Jeff,
According to Tom's New Year Card, he has 18 years on you (or a few less, depending on just when you started with Rod)
Rod isn't the only GCA who can't get on the net.....but I won't mention names. However, golf course architects are human (so is Trump, although he and some GCA go out of their way to dissuade you from belieivng that) and jealousy, envy, respect, etc. are all part of that equation. I suspect we are all a bit jealous deep down, but as adults try to mask it, or disguise it. And, as you say, every moment spent worrying about someone else is a moment less to be your best, whether in career or other aspects of a fulfilling life.
I know one of the great things about ASGCA (or other industry gatherings) for me is that I was jealous when younger, (I'll only speak for myself, but I think it has occurred in other GCA's) and often tended to go so far as to personalize it - as in "if he got that job, he must have done some really jerky stuff." I see that from some fans here, implied in their posts about non-favorite gca's. However, when you meet the people in question, you find to your surprise that you like most of them, they are good guys, that they have the same struggles you have (even the famous ones), that you have more in common than diffeences, and that you tend to forget the jobs you beat them out for, and remember the ones that they beat you for. For them, its just the opposite!