Tommy:
I already answered you as to why I wanted to take the family back to Rustic Canyon on the Friday after Thanksgiving - read above. In a nutshell, I wanted to go there myself, because I do love the course and so rarely get a chance to be anywhere near it. I also figured a second round there might help them to learn more about it, and love it more, so that in the future they would ASK to go there rather than having me tell them to. Moorpark was never considered - if we were going to drive that far (from Pasadena where we all were), it was going to be for Rustic and Rustic only, because heck, I was in charge of getting the tee time.
More importantly, this time I really do want an apology such as you promised before. You have stated a blatant falsehood above, when you say that I asked you where I could get on where I could use my GD rater status to get us reduced rates. Tommy, I asked you where I could get on PERIOD on that most busy of all days that wouldn't cost us too much, and decried the fact that I couldn't, and WOULDN'T use my GD status for anything that day. In other times, such as at Moorpark, I have used it to avoid the tee-time phone-call hassle. It worked at Moorpark and yes, they were nice enough to give my Dad and I the pro rate there, so we saved $15 or something compared to what my brother and brother in law paid. [Note also I tried to pay the balance to make it the full rate for my Dad given GD rules that only the rater should receive any comps, but the pro there wouldn't let me - thus my searching for things to buy after the round.] This matters to us - neither me nor my Dad are anything but limited in our golf budgets. So yes, that does matter from time to time and heck yes, if it saves my Dad some money in situations like this (he refuses to allow me to pay for him), then damn right I'm going to do it. But I would never do it at busy times like that, and I sure as hell didn't ask you for any favors for such at times like that - what I asked you about was advice on where we could succeed in getting a tee time PERIOD. This is a very big difference and yes, I'd like an apology.
As for the rest, all I can say Tommy is that you've "tried" me for this before, and I'll tell you again what I've told you then: I am honest and far truer to you, and to myself, than you give me credit for. I do have a optomistic/positive nature though, so if you ask me about Moorpark, I'm likely to tell you about the holes I liked more than I will about all the things I didn't like. You and others here are the opposite in this, and that's just fine. But I cannot change my nature. I am not telling you falsehoods or half-truths... What I am telling you is my take on any golf course, which does accentuate the positive. We rarely have TIME for the lengthy discussions required to give every detail of impressions, and if we do someday, then you will see that I do find negative aspects. But in these "sound-bite" type conversations we have, unfortunately you're always going to get what's on the top of my mind, and given my nature that is nearly always going to be some positive.
And at this point, I am getting very tired of defending myself. I am not you, I am not David, I am Tom Huckaby and I am quite different from both of you. I can live with this and have asked you to do so several times before. Can you do so now?
Here's hoping. We've had a darn fun electronic relationship for many years now, and I hope for many more years, where we can remove the "electronic" qualifier.
All the best,
The Accused