Some courses that come to mind along this topic:
Mountain Lake - Probably the most harmonious coexistence of homes and golf course I've seen anywhere in a planned community (in other words, TOC and North Berwick and Lahinch are excepted). Part of what makes the place so great is the realization that, whoa, it's (theoretically) possible for this to be your backyard.
Windsor - Very good RTJ2 golf course here in Vero that is integrated with an incredibly thoughtfully planned and great-looking New Urbanist community with West Indies houses. It's one of the most expensive addresses in the golf real estate world but I am at a loss to understand why so few less-expensive communities have even tried that alternative style of housing arrangement.
Turnberry Isle - 36 holes of core golf (a little on the cramped side in places) surrounded by huge condominium towers. It's kind of interesting, kind of eerie playing golf with literally thousands of verandas and windows oriented in your direction.
Currituck - Stands out as having the most obtrusive housing on an otherwise-nice course I've played. On the more scenic holes, the tall condo buildings are BRUTALLY close to the line of play.
Orange Tree - An Orlando club whose corridors are so absurdly compromised by homes and OB stakes that I marvel that anyone could enjoy playing there. It's a shame because the holes themselves are not that bad, just hellaciously tight.
Creighton Farms - Has to have the biggest houses by average square footage of any course I've played (Wexford on Hilton Head would be the runner-up
Golfcrest - Mid-century south-of-Houston club with typical Texas McMansions, but with wildly different architectural styles one to the next (I'm talking pagoda, then Mediterranean, then French Chateau styles all in a row), plus a feature I've not noticed anywhere else: little wee driveways at the back of the garages meant for residents to drive their own golf carts straight onto the course paths.
In general, as long as the houses grant the holes enough width, I'm determined not to let them detract from my enjoyment of the golf. When the golf itself is good, it's easy to ignore the houses. One strong example of that phenomenon here in FL is Lakewood National. The homebuilder granted Brandon Johnson enough room to build 36 reeeeeeally fun, varied and compelling golf holes, so it's easy to ignore the fact that the homes that surround it are of the typical modern Florida variety. I'd be thrilled to play both those courses regularly.