Having played Friars Head quite a few times, I continue to find it more amazing on each play. It is a course that you wake up with joyful anticipation on the day of playing. The fairways may be wide, but to hit close approach shots, you must position your tee shots in appropriate areas for optimal angles of attack. Once on the 7th, my tee ball was on the right edge of the fairway, and this allowed me to attack with a driver off the deck for a truly perfect result, though the hole out was luck, the shot was possible because of execution after an ideal tee shot. For many the beauty of the course distracts them from the awesome strategic nature of the layout.
As for a Long Island list of top courses, it seems like Engineers once again receives it's Rodney Dangerfield role. Engineers is easily top 10 at worst on Long Island. Maidstone may be sublime, but it is several levels below Engineers in architectural sophistication, not to mention, interest in the greens.