Mike,
Do you really think Flynn cared about both those 130 and 260 yard holes being called par threes? I don't think so. He was designing holes to present different challenges. He liked for example long short holes if you know what I mean and incorporated them on many of his designs.
Look at the variety of length of golf holes. They go from several dozen yards in length to almost 1000 yards (I know one hole that is 960 yards in Japan). I think they call it a par 7. Architects have all kinds of flexibility.
Tommy,
I am surprised you don't like playing at 6200 yards at least some of the time to mix it up? I often play back but sometimes when I move up it becomes more challenging as more trouble is in play. Variety is the spice of golf.
John,
The only time it should be anyone's business what you shoot is if you are playing a match or in a tournament. We have people who come as guests to play in some of our events and when they shoot 59 net for 18 holes on their own ball, you realize why it is important to know what they shoot.
I think we all know, Par is just a number and as pointed out, we all can and have our own definitions. It is just a measure to gauge performance against (if one wants to do so).
I still remember someone interviewing Ben Crenshaw about his favorite holes at Shinnecock Hills. He said one of the best was the 11th which he described as the shortest par five on the golf course
Even the pros have their own pars for golf holes. For those who don't know, I believe the 11th hole is 159 yards from the back tees.