Isn't the point here that we all like a "great golf culture"?
It's just that tehre should and can be many definitions of that.
Reading the repies, it would seem many would suggest a club culture should be one that conforms to their views...(example-whether or not music is acceptable, enjoyable or even tolerated)
Wouldn't it be incredibly boring if EVERY golf COURSE was uniform, like hard court tennis, rather than enjoying a diversity of landscape,distances,width, external and internal views, grass types and condtions, and of course architecture.
Why can't club cultures be equally diverse?
As Tom says, if you're worried about MY footwear, or where I wear MY hat(I personally take mine off indoors), you've got too much time on your hands.
The Golden rule of "do unto others as you'd like done to you", or Tom's version of St. Patrick's culture is one of many good models, but can be harder to implement and manage.
The tricky part of Tom's vision is when one's vision of "comfort"and culture infringes upon anothers....(which explains my grey hairs)