I know this hole has been discussed a few times before, but I'm surprised this thread hasn't gotten more traction as I still think 14 at Trails is one of the most "open canvas" holes I've seen, strategically. And I don't think the hole is in David's head, as Peter suggests - I think David is a pretty strong competitive player looking for a little insight to how aggressively he should think about playing this hole in the upcoming tournament he's playing with his son.
I've only played it once, and made two of my worst swings from the tee in an otherwise pretty damn good round for me. I never found the first ball, but made "par" with my second ball to save double from the right side. My two cents is that I didn't find the right side completely terrifying. It's a very uphill shot to a very small target (the target is very small regardless of where you're approaching from), but I found one thing to like about it that may or may not appeal to other players:
My personal feeling is that, when I have ~170 yards or less into a hole, I'd generally rather have a target that's wider than deep if I have to choose. I like my chances of hitting the ball solidly a little more than I like my chances of hitting a ball dead straight. From low right, about 100 yards out and going straight uphill and into the wind, I was able to hit a wedge that carried onto the green and held - the green slopes a little left-to-right if I recall and was pretty receptive from that angle. It's a demanding shot for sure, and I suspect the approach from left is easier. But I can vouch that right isn't literally impossible.
The small target and stern consequences for missing it probably mean that any shot that finds the green is a good one. Playing it with a certain degree of respect gives a chance to gain some shots on the field.