Pete -
on my home course the third hole is a 415 yard dog-leg left par 4 (the longest par 4 on the course), with bunkers guarding the inside line and a green that opens up for/is receptive to run up shots. In the summer months, the slight wind is behind/with me. In the spring and fall, when the wind is stronger and in my face, I have to constantly remind myself that I need to plan/play the hole differently, and that this is the game of golf, and that the architect knew & intended the hole to play harder on some days and easier on others. And if I don't constantly remind myself of this, I become petulant and churlish (in spring and fall) and start questioning the architect's skill and the quality of the golf hole. But, since there *is* a way to play the hole in the spring and fall, even if that way results in an easy bogey or hard par, I know the problem is with me, and not the architecture.
And then I still get petulant anyway.