You’ve raised another interesting thread Tommy!
For many years I was a member at a top ranked U.K. links course, one greatly admired herein. After a while and repeated play it did get a bit boring. But, a game somewhere else on a lower quality course soon brought me back to my senses as I realised how lucky I was and how, as the cliche says, the grass isn’t greener over the hill.
As to playing on relatively uninteresting courses, or poorly conditioned ones, I was once faced with this situation and it was one of the reasons I took up playing part-time with hickories on the basis that if I was going to be playing on a course as bland and poorly maintained as a field with flags from 100 yrs ago I might as well play with 100 yr old clubs!
The nature, aura and social aspects of the Club are also important, to some maybe more than to others. Friendly-unfriendly, competitive-social etc etc. And, as Duncan mentions, distance from home if you just want to play a few holes of an evening. The desire to play a few evening holes also brings up a variation between a private members club and a pay-n-play facilility. Not sure I’d still be playing if all golf were just pay-n-play or resort.
Atb