Erik,
It was not a slam on the rules. If anything I was pointing out how complicated the game has gotten in the attempt to make it more fair.
Be clear I think your definition of “fair” is perfectly fine. The problem I have been unsuccessfully trying to point out is that everyone has their own definition. Furthermore, unlike the phrase rub of the green, the pursuit of fairness causes problems. If you don’t think that is the case then our position is miles apart.