Sean - you raise a fundamental point about all our discussions here, ie that behind even the most reasoned/objective post there lies a personal and subjective experience and history. On one level we can meaningfully communicate, but on another level we’re all just listening to bird songs in the forest or wind through the trees. (I think it was Nietzsche who wrote “Every philosophy contains within it the author’s autobiography”). It's striking how differently you and I approach our golfing lives and our participation on gca.com.
From years of reading your posts I know that you’ve long played and loved the game, on two continents no less, and deeply appreciate its great fields of play. Your resulting perspective on here is broad (in your ‘live and let live way’), and at the same time your personal preferences and choices are quite specific. It’s good to read of the pleasure you get when these come together at some little gem of a North Carolina course or upon rediscovering a terrific English inland as part of a winter tour. But it’s clear that, at this stage in your golfing life, these gems and rediscoveries are what make the game interesting/worthwhile to you.
With me, on the other hand, it’s the very opposite: I see (or think I see) what makes - very specifically - for ideal golf course architecture and for the kind of courses I would most like to play, and I enjoy reading & writing about that on here; but since I took up the game late and am loving it more and more with each passing year, I’m at the stage where I could very happily play every single day on whatever course I have access to, and with all sorts of equipment, and with a card and pencil mentality.
In short: you have patience and broad tastes on here, but little of it in your actual golfing life; while I have little patience and narrow tastes on here, and quite a lot of it when it comes to my actual golfing life.
It’s sort of amazing that we can communicate at all!
Peter