Presidio is definitely worth a play in my opinion. Quirky with some fun holes, and a very SF-style experience.
Tilden is also quirky but kind of fun, though I wouldn't have it too high on your list.
Along the East Bay, tee to green I like Monarch Bay better than Metro, though Metro's greens are more interesting. Both are worth a try.
I wouldn't drive to Poppy Ridge...if you're on limited time, there actually isn't much inland that I would drive to.