After belonging to private clubs for most of my life, I’ve spent the last 10+ years not belonging to a club. Why? I relocated for work, expecting to live in that area for 2 or 3 years. Putting down a big joining fee made no sense. Refundable fees do not look to be something that one can expect to take advantage of. Just google all of the lawsuits and disputes about the subject.
As my stay in the area grew longer, I continue to see me moving away in a year of two, although it hasn’t happened. Reviewing the option of joining a club, I’m affected by watching a neighbor drop $50K on a membership initiation, only to have the club go bankrupt after 2 years, leaving him with a cost-per-round of over $3000. With clubs in financial trouble and clubs selling out, I see any initiation costs as at-risk.
Some other thoughts:
Any course that allows open play for payment of greens fees should not pretend to also sell “memberships” - they are selling “season passes”. People who buy those passes are likely relying on cost-per-round in their decision.
When a club drops the initiation fee, should they refund that fee to existing members? If not, how does a member feel when he paid $50K last year and plays with a member who paid nothing this year?
Golf, to me, is first about the people that you play with and second about the course experience, which I define as course design, conditioning, and customer service. I play multiple times per week with tha same groups of people that are enjoyable and we find multiple local courses that provide the course experience that I enjoy. I play local publics and occasionally privates via a state golf association 1-day tournament program.
Rack rates for greens fees have decreased dramatically in recent years, and on-line tee time sellers provide even lower rates (I don’t care to get into their pros & cons to the industry…)
Not wanting to join a restaurant, swimming pool, tennis club, or exercise facility, and having no need to try to impress anyone socially, I just cannot come up with a good reason to join a private.