Mike, would you care to give some specific examples of "pompous ass, airy" officials? As often as you seem to encounter them, you must have dozens of specific anecdotes of pompousness and airiness.
I'm a number of years your junior, but having played tournament golf in junior tournaments, high school, college and beyond in about a dozen different states, my experience tells me that the times when a rules official has been anything other than gracious, but matter-of-fact have almost always occurred when a player has been rude or terse with an official. In fact, I can't think of one interaction I've had with a rules official where the official started off salty.
There are lots of golfers with bad attitudes out there, and rules officials are easy, if unfair, targets for players who don't know how to vent their own self-inflicted frustrations correctly on the course. For that reason, it wouldn't surprise me if there was the sort of streak among rules officials that you perceive. And yet...