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Peter Pallotta

Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« on: January 19, 2017, 09:10:49 AM »
Did tears ever well up in your eyes and you had to brush them away before anyone noticed?


Did anything you ever encountered/experienced on a golf course -- a vista, a golf hole, the aura of the place, a sense of peace -- make your heart swell so that it got you all misty eyed?


If so, do you mind sharing where and when that was?


Thanks
Peter


Full disclosure: I think the answers/golf courses included in this thread should constitute the *real* Top 10-100 courses in the world! 


Ed Brzezowski

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #1 on: January 19, 2017, 09:57:53 AM »
Merion.........   16th hole, right side of green. Might have something to do with my buddies ashes being there.

Other was Pine Valley checking hole location on two for the Philly Open. Sun coming up, colors that were beautiful beyond description. Completely by myself  standing on the green until a deer walked out to nod at me.
Just perfect and got a bit misty. I was remembering what my Mom said when I bought my first clubs, " where do you think golf will ever take you". If she only knew.
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Phil Lipper

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #2 on: January 19, 2017, 10:34:31 AM »
I passed a stone at a member guest it almost made me cry

jeffwarne

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #3 on: January 19, 2017, 10:45:12 AM »
I saw a former President of the USGA and student of mine cry on a famus hole on a well known course when showing me the results of a "renovation" (not the current version)
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Dan Kelly

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #4 on: January 19, 2017, 10:46:53 AM »
If I had returned to Sutton Bay since the deaths of Mark Amundson and the original golf course, I'm sure a tear would have come to my eye.


And a tear definitely did come to my eye as I watched my daughter Rose play her last hole of college golf, in the Division 3 Nationals. She, herself, was bawling, alongside her coach, after she stuck it to 4 feet and made the birdie putt.



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MCirba

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #5 on: January 19, 2017, 10:53:30 AM »
Peter,

Great question and the answer is sure, plenty of times.

Like Ed, the one that first comes to mind happened at Merion.   

Merion is the one course I developed an unnatural affinity for from the time I sat in the ramshackle shed of a clubhouse at Scott View Golf Course in Montdale, PA in July of 1971, the month I started playing the game.   Between nines we'd stop in for Stewart Sandwiches and sodas and in their stack of magazines was the 1971 Sports Illustrated with Cannonero II on the cover having just lost the Triple Crown at the Belmont and inside was the preview of the US Open at Merion.   The associated story was titled "The Ghosts of Merion" with superimposed black and white photos of historical players and events ghosted over color pictures of the holes in question.    Given my love for history and my emerging love for golf I was captivated.

Merion to me became a magical place.   When I first moved to the Philadelphia area to park cars at a fancy Main Line restaurant during the holiday season after college graduation in 1981 I didn't have a vehicle of my own and would solace myself with knowing that Ardmore Avenue was just a mile or so  away.   That winter I contented myself with playing Hugh Wilson's other course for the first time, Cobb's Creek, which was just almost across the street from where I was staying with my former college roommate in Upper Darby.   Again, captivation and magic and some kismet, probably.

When I finally moved to the Philadelphia area in 1985 I would drive by Merion, sometimes venturing up Golf House Road to view the quarry hole from the tee.   My first real time on the grounds was during the 1989 US Amateur following the match where a very unorthodox Danny Green defeated local favorite Jay Sigel in the semi-finals.   My admiration and respect for the golf course only grew with greater familiarity.

It wasn't until around 2001 that I finally was able to play Merion.   Through the generosity of former and current members of this Discussion Group, a lurker dropped out and I met the Emperor for the first time in the parking lot where both of our eyes were already glassy just taking our clubs out of the trunk.

It was a Monday, so the course wasn't officially open, and it was hot.   Hot and Humid.   Probably upper 90s with almost as high a wetness factor.   Carrying our bags, four of us teed off.

In some respects, I was fortunate we played the course on an empty day.   If not, had I been right-handed, a doppelganger of my heeled opening tee short would have killed a tea-drinking member on the patio.   Instead, it skirted across an empty practice putting green to exactly the worst place on the planet anyone would want to play that hole behind giant evergreens and at the worst possible angle.

Thus it continued through the first five holes, where it seemed my thigh-high backswing in a flash of nerves and pulsing temples would only permit shots that were chunked or skirted along the ground.   Thankfully, none of my playing partners were exactly hitting shots of Hogansian perfection.

Finally, after another rolled tee shot on the 6th hole, I scudzed a ball somewhere up in the middle of the fairway about 180 yards from the green.   Standing there, sun high in the sky, I took out a five-iron and somehow, finally, made something approximating an actual golf swing and the center of the clubface ended up being in play for the first time that day and my ball soared, high and far, carrying the large false front and settling in the middle of the green.

Immediately, goosebumps chilled my body and involuntary tears began streaming down my cheeks.   Instantly, I was about as happy as I ever remember being, and from that point on during the round I played enough decent shots to leave the course elated.

Later that day, The Emperor was visited by Ghosts of Merion while in the shower.   That's his story to tell, though.



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Eric Smith

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #6 on: January 19, 2017, 11:07:05 AM »

I can think of two instances:

1. When, walking up the 17th fairway at Cypress Point, I looked out to the bay and witnessed whales leaping and splashing in the water.


2. When, on the 18th green of the Nicklaus course at Dismal River, Jon Hambone Hamilton made a 10 footer to beat me and Ari Techner in a playoff to go to the playoff of the 2014 5th Major.
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Joe Bausch

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #7 on: January 19, 2017, 11:10:56 AM »
Funny, the last time I cried on a golf course was about 5 years ago.  Was playing in Jersey and my friend Cirba was playing poorly.  After a 3-wood of his had the trajectory and distance of a fat wedge, I laughed so hard I cried.
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Cory Lewis

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #8 on: January 19, 2017, 11:14:05 AM »
I cried after my father and I birdied the 16th hole at Cypress Point.  He took me to Pebble Beach when I was 15 and I was so proud to take him to Cypress when I was 25.  He was the reason I began this love affair with the game and taking him to Cypress was one small way of thanking him for everything he did for me.  We both hit driver, me to 12 feet, him to 5 feet.  After I made my putt, he confidently rolled his in.  He told me later it was the most nervous he'd been over a putt in his life. 


To birdie one of the most beautiful and famous holes in golf is awesome, to do it with your dad is almost more than words can express.  Hence I cried a few tears of joy.
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MCirba

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #9 on: January 19, 2017, 11:16:26 AM »
Funny, the last time I cried on a golf course was about 5 years ago.  Was playing in Jersey and my friend Cirba was playing poorly.  After a 3-wood of his had the trajectory and distance of a fat wedge, I laughed so hard I cried.

I believe I may have cried that day, as well Joe.   :'( :'( :'(

For everyone else, to this day when one of our rounds starts going south Joe and I still refer to it as "having a Plainfield moment". 
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Kyle Henderson

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #10 on: January 19, 2017, 11:18:38 AM »
Not really. An adjacent onion field or some bad tacos might do the trick, sophomorically speaking.
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Ed Brzezowski

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #11 on: January 19, 2017, 11:52:45 AM »
Funny, the last time I cried on a golf course was about 5 years ago.  Was playing in Jersey and my friend Cirba was playing poorly.  After a 3-wood of his had the trajectory and distance of a fat wedge, I laughed so hard I cried.

that seems racist?
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Kalen Braley

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #12 on: January 19, 2017, 01:04:12 PM »
Never cried, but the closest thing to it ... I was golfing on the morning of 9/11 and we found out about it on the back 9 from a friends cell call...


I felt sick to my stomach, and to this day I don't really know why we finished the round out....

Bob Montle

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #13 on: January 19, 2017, 01:04:54 PM »
In 1993, in Marathon Florida, I persuaded my dad to join me for a round of golf on a par 3 course on his 90th birthday.
Number 6, at 140 yds with a volcano green is the toughest hole on the course.

My dad topped his driver and rolled the ball all the way down the fairway, up the slope to the green straight into the cup for his only hole-in-one in 75 years of golfing.

My mom and I both cried.
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Marty Bonnar

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #14 on: January 19, 2017, 01:23:41 PM »
Only once.
Standing on the left hand side of the 6th fairway at Pasatiempo, gazing through the fence at a house.


F.
The White River runs dark through the heart of the Town,
Washed the people coal-black from the hole in the ground.

Eric LeFante

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #15 on: January 19, 2017, 01:59:16 PM »
I cried after my father and I birdied the 16th hole at Cypress Point.  He took me to Pebble Beach when I was 15 and I was so proud to take him to Cypress when I was 25.  He was the reason I began this love affair with the game and taking him to Cypress was one small way of thanking him for everything he did for me.  We both hit driver, me to 12 feet, him to 5 feet.  After I made my putt, he confidently rolled his in.  He told me later it was the most nervous he'd been over a putt in his life. 


To birdie one of the most beautiful and famous holes in golf is awesome, to do it with your dad is almost more than words can express.  Hence I cried a few tears of joy.


Wow, that is special.

Michael Moore

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #16 on: January 19, 2017, 02:25:36 PM »
Great question.
 
 I got misty when I arrived at my first Maine Amateur and saw a large banner on the clubhouse welcoming the field to Martindale Country Club. I believe it had taken me six attempts to qualify.
 
 Yes, I fired a 97 with eight shanks. The next day was rained out. As I lay beneath the covers, I called the guy who had volunteered to caddy for me that day and asked if he still wanted to do it the following day. He said no. I called our executive director and asked if it was truly necessary for me to play in the second round. She said yes.
 
 Before round two, a member of our group, a guy caddying for his teenaged son, pulled me aside and congratulated me on my composure and what a good example I had set for the two youngsters I was playing with. I then fired a 95 with but six shanks. It was just recently pointed out to me that this is more strokes than Justin Thomas used to negotiate the first three rounds of the 2017 Sony Open.
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Joe Bausch

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #17 on: January 19, 2017, 02:51:28 PM »

 Before round two, a member of our group, a guy caddying for his teenaged son, pulled me aside and congratulated me on my composure and what a good example I had set for the two youngsters I was playing with. I then fired a 95 with but six shanks. It was just recently pointed out to me that this is more strokes than Justin Thomas used to negotiate the first three rounds of the 2017 Sony Open.

Yeah, but JT had a good looper.   ;)
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PThomas

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #18 on: January 19, 2017, 02:52:40 PM »
Great question.
 
 I got misty when I arrived at my first Maine Amateur and saw a large banner on the clubhouse welcoming the field to Martindale Country Club. I believe it had taken me six attempts to qualify.
 
 Yes, I fired a 97 with eight shanks. The next day was rained out. As I lay beneath the covers, I called the guy who had volunteered to caddy for me that day and asked if he still wanted to do it the following day. He said no. I called our executive director and asked if it was truly necessary for me to play in the second round. She said yes.
 
 Before round two, a member of our group, a guy caddying for his teenaged son, pulled me aside and congratulated me on my composure and what a good example I had set for the two youngsters I was playing with. I then fired a 95 with but six shanks. It was just recently pointed out to me that this is more strokes than Justin Thomas used to negotiate the first three rounds of the 2017 Sony Open.

kudos for playing that 2nd round
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Mark Smolens

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #19 on: January 19, 2017, 02:57:00 PM »
Spreading my Dad's ashes on what is now the 1st green of the south 9 at the old Scottsdale CC with my Mom and my brother there were lots of tears. I get misty eyed just driving by on Hayden and looking over to see how Dad's first hole in one hole is doing...

Matthew Rose

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #20 on: January 19, 2017, 02:59:31 PM »

I'll get back to this thread on Tuesday after I play Pebble Beach for the first time.


I haven't been able to afford it for most of my adult life, but my wife surprised me for my upcoming 40th birthday with a printed reservation.


I know Pebble is maybe a little overrated in the eyes of some here, but for a guy like me who has no private club contacts and plays nothing but Doak 1s and 2s pretty much exclusively, this is a pretty overwhelming deal for me.


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MCirba

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #21 on: January 19, 2017, 03:25:58 PM »
Michael Moore,

Terrific story, and it reminds me of a round where I didn't cry but should have.

I was playing in a two-day stroke-play event on two nearby courses and the first day I came to the par five 7th hole at about two-over and seemingly swinging well.

The hole in question is a quick dogleg right around the boundary and it's easy to drive through the fairway and OB, particularly if my left-handed draw failed to turn.    I hit driver and proceeded to drive one, two, three balls OB, finally getting my 4th tee shot (7th shot) into play before proceeding with a routine par 11.

Shaken, but not yet stirred, I collected myself to par the 8th hole thinking that my total 8 over par for the front nine was still recoverable into something respectable.   

I drove up the right side on the par four ninth and then hit a 9-iron approach solidly and although I couldn't see very well where it landed felt confident I was on or near the green on a hole that had no greenside hazards or bunkers, or anything else particularly troublesome.   

Never found the ball.   Not a hint of it.   I had to march back down the fairway, stroke and distance, to now play my 4th shot and ended up with a triple for a neat +11 front nine and I don't recall much but seeing red dots in front of my eyes on the back nine.

I recall shooting an 80 the next day but the fact I can still envision the day of disaster so vividly over 15 years later makes me want to cry.
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Peter Pallotta

Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #22 on: January 19, 2017, 04:05:41 PM »
Thanks, gents.


I was a little misty twice, in a lump in the throat sort of way:


1. Because I was there, on a special course, feeling very fortunate: the 5th hole at Crystal Downs, and the famed 3 sisters bunkers
2. Because this golfing vista was new to me, and transported me to a far off place: the 18th at Wooden Sticks in Uxbridge Ontario, a replica of the 18th at St Andrews, with the widest fairway and largest green I'd ever seen

Tim_Weiman

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #23 on: January 19, 2017, 05:04:30 PM »
Ballybunion is the only golf setting that made me cry, the Cashen more than the Old Course.
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BHoover

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Re: Did you ever cry on a golf course?
« Reply #24 on: January 19, 2017, 05:43:26 PM »
Do tears from allergies count?