Thanks all. You have given me plenty to ponder. The courses mixed with areas which are striking the loudest bells are:
Linville, Grandfather & Boone (any info people have on this area would be appreciated)
Asheville/Charlotte: Charlotte CC, Myers Park, Carolina GC & Biltmore Forest, Wade Hampton
Charleston: CC of Charleston & Kiawah Cassique
Aiken: Camden, Sage Valley, Augusta CC (I now Georgia, but not far)
I am not sure the families would enjoy Myrtle Beach or Hilton Head, so those are choices which will have to be for a time when no women are involved.
Given the SC choices will be hot as a doberman's breath I will likely try to convince folks to head for the mountains in NC. I never considered the Linville area before...could be interesting.
Thanks again.
Ciao