Yes indeed, Jeff - old Mrs. Crosby sure didn't raise no turnip.
Very perceptive, Bob.
We're looking for something.
Now, the pop psychologists and marriage counsellors tell us that we shouldn't look for someone else to make us happy, that we need to find it in and for ourselves.
And the gurus point to a state of being where no externals or circumstances can influence our internal equanimity and essential peace and joy.
I wonder: if we were all enlightened, would we discuss and be focused on gca more, or less? Would we enjoy a "2" as much as a "9".
Reminds me of what one of Benny Goodman's sidemen said about the band (and about the fans) when it first exploded onto the scene and was playing 8 shows a day at the Paramount.
He said: it wasn't really about the music for most of the fans, it was about the experience.
Benny would play a solo using 100% of his instrument (technically and musically brilliant) and there'd be applause.
Harry James would play a solo using 50% of his instrument and the place would go wild.
Gene Krupa would play a solo using 10% of his drums, just banging away, and he'd bring the house down!
And part of Benny's genius (and success) was that he understood this -- that, as much as it was always about music and mastery for him, he knew that for others it was mostly about something else; and that's why, even though over the years he'd have many "better" drummers, he always said Gene was his favourite.
Peter