Tim,
I am far from a writer or golf critic, but here are my thoughts. First, somehow driving through the gates seems to take you to a different place. I just feel like I am off LI when I play there and totally secluded, which I like. I also like the variety of holes, and terrain. They have a par 4 where you can try and drive it and make double, and a par 4 where I can not make it in 2 but make par. The course features a wide array of greens as well, some undulated, some with tilt, all with interest. I can only judge a routing by how walkable the course is, and Friars is a great walk. Cresting the hill to see the clubhouse is amazing, and walking along the deck as the day winds down can not be beat.
Sorry that I am not the type of guy that will be invited to contribute to TCG, but those are my personal thoughts on it.