Mike - this past weekend I was at a modest camping ground on Lake Huron I'd never been to before. A few kilometres away was the equally unpretentious Sunset Golf Club. I enjoyed its 5700 yard Par 70 layout along with some locals and sunburnt cottagers, and afterwards read about its family owned history and highlights. A few years ago a 14 year old from nearby (and similarly small and humble) Listowel Ontario won their annual junior tournament with a 66. His name is Corey Conner. This year Corey was the low amateur at The Masters, in Augusta Georgia.
Golf is alive and well and providing countless numbers with countless hours of enjoyment at countless courses like Sunset all across North America -- people like your parents and mine, and young Coreys everywhere, all at prices/'memberships' that compare favourably to going out for a dinner and a movie with the family once a month. There is very little prestige at places like Sunset, and very little ego or envy or ambition or money -- just the great game of golf. Interestingly, what ARE dying, if we are to believe all the press (by interested and implicated bystanders), are the courses that have or have tried to tout prestige and ego and envy and ambition and money, with golf as merely the vehicle and symbol of a 'lifestyle' and not of a 'life'.
Sad to say, though I've said it before: gca.com is a wonderful place populated by good people discussing the great and admirable architecture past and present; but its very existence is a testament not to the simple and garden variety pleasures of a golfing pastime, but to the precious and preening lifestyle of an elitist and exclusive pursuit.