I think this is a rather interesting post and conundrum in and of itself.
Michael I'm not sure I'm in the same boat as you. I'm traveling and seeing courses now and certainly loving every minute of it. However, as you mention it's rare to be blown away, especially the more you see.
This affects me when I think about the future and makes me wonder a lot about whether taking the red pill was the wise choice. (that's a Matrix reference for those thinking wtf - "You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes."
Now that I've seen most of the depths of the rabbit hole and I approach a stage in life when I might not yet have to figure out what I want to be when I grow up (I'm 45 btw) but I may have to face up to deciding where I want to live when I grow up and have to determine what impact golf will have on this. In only a couple years my kids will be grown up to the point I could think of leaving The Netherlands after 25 years here. Or even worse I could consider staying put. The options are perfectly open. From a golf standpoint places like St. Andrews, North Berwick/Gullane, Melbourne and to a certain extent Bandon seem like the best places to live if you can find work. The Netherlands is not bad either.