BCowen...so when your greens die because you, and a handful of "experts" want firm greens, you're okay with that?
Here's what I would do...if you don't like the way your course is maintained, fire your super, or quit your club and find one that sets the course up exactly the way you want.
But until you understand that 1st and foremost the super will do what is right for the grass, and what the members want comes second, you will never be happy.