Bachelor parties aren't about enjoying local microbreweries. They're about hard liquor, clubs that stay open late, strippers, and White Castle at 5 AM. I originally thought the guys suggesting Tom's group drive at least an hour away were all being golf snobs. After some quick Googling though, it appears they're only trying to send him to "land fit for purpose" (shout-out to MHM).
On the bright side, Grand Rapids sounds like a great place to repent afterwards. And I'm also willing to bet the police officers uphold the law with dignity and the jail cells are clean, which could be important.