I'd throw in another criteria of 'which course would you rather play' --- adding under what circumstances. Also, what is your skill level relative to which course you'd rather play. Those variables can explain the reason a course like Whistling Straits or Harbor Town, or Sand Hills or Shinnecock are better than another, as an individual 'druther'. What you'd rather do may not really have much relavance to the actual golf design quality of the venue, unless we know what the context of playing a particular course may be.
I can only go by what folks say and have opined about VN, and seeing it on TV last year and this year. Hell no, I'd rather NOT play it contrasted alongside a more open, forgiving, fun to get around on a great walk and keep it in play reasonably consistent course that is in reasonably good condition.. That is because I'm not very good at playing high level, high skill competitive golf. I- as a personal matter, don't want to have to be beaten to a pulp, loose two sleeves of balls, not able to enjoy a great walk, and have to pay an arm and a leg to play some architorture presentation of extreme rough and overly bunkered mishmash. That doesn't mean the tough course isn't far greater of an architectural effort (and a fair one) for the highly skilled or to challenge in a serious competitive event, lending credibility to the proposition that it is in deed a great architectural effort.
When a course is intense, and every hole has great merit in sense of strategy, aesthetics, placement along the routing in terms of direction and pace of par, and generally fair, along with good maintenance meld presentation, yet you can't break 100 due to length and slopes and hazards that take more skill than you have to avoid or extracate, it may still be a great course. It just isn't for you. You are entitled to say 'you'd rather play another', maybe less intense, some breather holes, some open space not strewn with hazards and ball eating rough, etc. But, you can't say the easier or less intense course is better necessarily from a GCA standpoint.