Geoffrey,
I just returned from a Pasatiempo, Monterey Peninsula, Cypress Point and SFGC trip and my advice to you would be to enjoy them all as much as I did. They are a GREAT group of golf courses and are starting to even up my personal East coast bias. The Whaling Station in Monterey is a wonderful place if you are looking for a good steak. I would also urge you to check out the locker rooms at both Cypress and SFG. They are a "bit" of a throw back but are both wonderful locker rooms. At SFG check out the working fireplace and the telephone system which should bring a smile to your face. Give us the update when you get back.