Of the women I know that are regular golfers, many of them tend to be over 40, more like over 50. You don't see many 20 something young ladies around the courses in any significant numbers, whether it is at private courses, or public, in my neck of the woods. The only semi-regular women golfers seem to be the H.S. girls, or some college ladies. Our Women's Tuesday league must have an average age of at least 50. Many are teachers, or not working regular jobs or actually retired. There are about 40 women in their Tuesday league, and near 200 members of Men's club.
I can only think of a handful of the ladies at our club that call each other up and get a tee time together as a whim. They just aren't wired to pursue golf on the same competitive basis that men seem to be. They don't tend to have many betting games, nor is the friendly rivalry in their regular groups the same, from what I can tell. I'm thinking that Adam's example of the sly vixen is probably golf's version of Annie Oakley, and she only exists in the wild west, probably smokes cigars, and plays a lot of 'hold-em'. Not too common in the realm of lady golfers.
So, they aren't wired to compete, either against each other in the same way as we men, nor more to the point, against the golf course. I think the men see the field of play as an opponent to conquer, and women just see a course as a place you have to go to in order to play the game.
It must be tied up in the whole idea of male hunters and female gatherers, or whatever the ancient genetic soup has blended up in us. Yes, women that play amateur USGA or State competitions may have a more active interest in the course design, but even at the higher pro levels, I don't think ladies of the LPGA are too apt to give a post round quote that deals with the course architecture, even when they are playing a significant course of GCA historical merit. A few do, but a disproportionate few.