When I read the first post on the first thread - I wanted to post - why is this not titled OT - it has nothing to do with golf course architecture.
Unfortunately I have read every post...I did listen to the David Foster Wallace speech, which was good and a reminder of the benefits of staying in the moment, and being aware of those around us, of ourselves in our enviroment.
This brings me to my personal approach to phones and golf courses - actually, not golf courses, but playing golf, usually in club competition - and members and guests use and particpation.
What I think gives phone use a bad rap:
1. a playing partner answering a phone call on or approaching a green, and then continuing to have a conversation while the group putts out, all the while gesturing to us to keep playing, or "I'll just be a sec".
2. Standing on the tee of a Par 3, waiting for the group on the green (the group ahead of them have already teed off the next), and one of the group is on the phone.
3. my fellow golfers, who I have chosen to play with, and they have chosen to play with me, choose to send emails, thumb type text messages, as we walk down fairways, or to or from tees - instead of engaging in conversation, or being aware of what they are actually doing - they are there to play golf - right?
4. Those that take or make a call - using a load voice (this is not exclusive to a golf course!
5. 19th hole - looking at the screen - again instead of engaging with playing partners over a social end of game beverage.
I have good friends, who are sometimes susceptible to some of the above, I try to help them see their actions from those around them's POV.
My personal approach to phone use: (apart from getting very attached to it sometimes)
1. Always turn off or silent(same thing) my phone while playing golf (my wife was able to contact me when my daughter slashed her arm open via golf ops) - exceptions - our group may want a football score that is happening while we are playing, check severe weather pattern, or to call golf ops to raise their attention to a slow group.
2. never answer a call in a meeting with another person - one on one.
3. Never answer a call or check anything in an important formal meeting - Board meeting, etc
4. Never answer a call or check anything while meeting with professional - lawyer, accountant, doctor, etc
5. Turn my phone off while at the movies
6. Turn my phone off while attending my children's school functions, plays, assembly, etc
7. Out to dinner with my wife - don't answer the phone.
I am sure there are another 3 to get a top ten, but you get the idea - I am trying to be aware and in the moment with the thing I am doing at the time - the phone call will always wait, and I can cop some flack for not answering the phone, but at the end of the day, they can usually wait, I will call them back, and when I do, they will usually have my undivided attention.
Just turn it off, and enjoy your game, give it your best attention, and sort our the other stuff when you can. life is too short.
consideration for others on the golf course should be paramount.