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JR Potts

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #200 on: April 23, 2012, 09:49:39 PM »
As someone who goes out of his way to support caddies at "my place" whenever possible and in many different ways, these missives are extraordinarily disappointing and quite candidly, they do tremendous harm to the time honored work of caddying.  

I know so many people on this board and elsewhere who give tremendous amounts of money and energy to enrich the lives of caddies at their club and in their community....and these efforts are continually ongoing.  These writings do no favors to the cause.   And that's disappointing.

While the odds suggest that there are like-minded caddies at my club, I hope that given the backlog and waitlist of kids looking for summer employment as caddies, those who share the opinions, disdain of the members and abhorrance of the work as a caddy a la VK are weeded out and replaced immediately.

Yes, there's freedom of speech.  But speech often gives one an insight into character and attitude.  

After reading these thoughts, I know I will never look at another 30+ year old caddy the same way again, and that's too bad.


« Last Edit: April 23, 2012, 09:54:51 PM by JR Potts »

Tom_Doak

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #201 on: April 23, 2012, 09:55:00 PM »
As someone who goes out of his way to support caddies at "my place" whenever possible and in many different ways, these missives are extraordinarily disappointing and quite candidly, they do tremendous harm to the time honored work of caddying.  

I know so many people on this board and elsewhere who give tremendous amounts of money and energy to enrich the lives of caddies at their club and in their community....and these efforts are continually ongoing.  These writings do no favors to the cause.   And that's disappointing.

While the odds suggest that there are like-minded caddies at my club, I hope that given the backlog and waitlist of kids looking for summer employment as caddies, those who share the opinions, disdain of the members and abhorrance of the work as a caddy a la VK are weeded out and replaced immediately.

Yes, there's freedom of speech.  But speech often gives one an insight into character and attitude.  

Ryan:

Would it not be better to let those caddies meet the members and find out that their prejudices are wrong and that not all people who belong to a private club are greedy bastards, instead of trying to "weed them out" and prove the kids right?

JR Potts

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #202 on: April 23, 2012, 10:01:40 PM »
They do meet the members...every day on the course and around the property.  They can then formulate their own opinions or become more solidified in those preexisting beliefs.  If those preexisting beliefs are as negative as VKs, I would want them out.

Who wants someone working with you/for you who hates you and everything you believe in?  Would you keep that person employed for you?

Edit...strike "employed" and insert "engaged in service".  :D
« Last Edit: April 23, 2012, 10:07:19 PM by JR Potts »

Tom_Doak

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #203 on: April 23, 2012, 10:05:06 PM »
Who wants someone working with you/for you who hates you and everything you believe in?  Would you keep that person employed for you?

Absolutely not.  And, like Don M., I am left wondering why V. Kmetz wants to keep working somewhere if he really hates the people he's working for.

But, don't forget, every private club in America has arranged things so that caddies are NOT employees ... so you don't have to pay them benefits and deal with termination issues!  :)

John Kavanaugh

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #204 on: April 23, 2012, 10:08:25 PM »
If you read V's thesis you will learn both why he started this thread and remains a caddie.

Steve Salmen

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #205 on: April 23, 2012, 10:09:10 PM »
Should words have no consequences?  Should people not be held accountable for words they write online?

In this age of social media we must be prepared to have our words have the effect of screaming them from the mountain top for everyone to hear.  I'm rather indifferent about the actions of Mike Y.  On one hand, he has no horse in this race.  On the other, he's holding someone accountable for something made public.

I generally sympathize with people that have less than I do in various aspects of life.  Then something like this happens:
Yesterday at a restaurant my friend wanted to order a bowl of chili.  He saw that they had chili fries and asked the cashier if they had a bowl of chili.  The fellow behind the counter asked the manager, who said no.  I told him to tell his manager that they just lost three customers.  The guy pretty much did his job but the manager really upset me.  It is then that really mean thoughts about fast food being a step up for a group of folks.  

Then I sympathize again because at least they work and may have at one time been dependent.  I don't know.  At least the thread has been good for opening my mind a little even if it doesn't change it.

I wish everyone the very best.  Find happiness not hatred in our small ways.

Carl Nichols

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #206 on: April 23, 2012, 10:33:44 PM »

Bill_McBride

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #207 on: April 23, 2012, 10:45:02 PM »
As someone who goes out of his way to support caddies at "my place" whenever possible and in many different ways, these missives are extraordinarily disappointing and quite candidly, they do tremendous harm to the time honored work of caddying.  

I know so many people on this board and elsewhere who give tremendous amounts of money and energy to enrich the lives of caddies at their club and in their community....and these efforts are continually ongoing.  These writings do no favors to the cause.   And that's disappointing.

While the odds suggest that there are like-minded caddies at my club, I hope that given the backlog and waitlist of kids looking for summer employment as caddies, those who share the opinions, disdain of the members and abhorrance of the work as a caddy a la VK are weeded out and replaced immediately.

Yes, there's freedom of speech.  But speech often gives one an insight into character and attitude.  

After reading these thoughts, I know I will never look at another 30+ year old caddy the same way again, and that's too bad.




Did V Kmetz ever say anything negative about the Winged Foot members, or just TEPaul?

Garland Bayley

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #208 on: April 23, 2012, 10:55:36 PM »
As someone who goes out of his way to support caddies at "my place" whenever possible and in many different ways, these missives are extraordinarily disappointing and quite candidly, they do tremendous harm to the time honored work of caddying.  

I know so many people on this board and elsewhere who give tremendous amounts of money and energy to enrich the lives of caddies at their club and in their community....and these efforts are continually ongoing.  These writings do no favors to the cause.   And that's disappointing.

While the odds suggest that there are like-minded caddies at my club, I hope that given the backlog and waitlist of kids looking for summer employment as caddies, those who share the opinions, disdain of the members and abhorrance of the work as a caddy a la VK are weeded out and replaced immediately.

Yes, there's freedom of speech.  But speech often gives one an insight into character and attitude.  

After reading these thoughts, I know I will never look at another 30+ year old caddy the same way again, and that's too bad.




I pity people who think they know the only truth and only wish to associate with those like themselves.

Seems to me this attitude reflects poorly on club members if indeed they share your feelings.

"I enjoy a course where the challenges are contained WITHIN it, and recovery is part of the game  not a course where the challenge is to stay ON it." Jeff Warne

Mike_Young

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #209 on: April 24, 2012, 06:53:35 AM »
Should words have no consequences?  Should people not be held accountable for words they write online?

In this age of social media we must be prepared to have our words have the effect of screaming them from the mountain top for everyone to hear.  I'm rather indifferent about the actions of Mike Y.  On one hand, he has no horse in this race.  On the other, he's holding someone accountable for something made public.

I generally sympathize with people that have less than I do in various aspects of life.  Then something like this happens:
Yesterday at a restaurant my friend wanted to order a bowl of chili.  He saw that they had chili fries and asked the cashier if they had a bowl of chili.  The fellow behind the counter asked the manager, who said no.  I told him to tell his manager that they just lost three customers.  The guy pretty much did his job but the manager really upset me.  It is then that really mean thoughts about fast food being a step up for a group of folks.  

Then I sympathize again because at least they work and may have at one time been dependent.  I don't know.  At least the thread has been good for opening my mind a little even if it doesn't change it.

I wish everyone the very best.  Find happiness not hatred in our small ways.

Steve S,
I can see why you might think " I have no horse in this race" and I don't know that I agree.
VKMetz would love my neighbors.  I live in a downtown area of a large college town and am surrounded by college professors on both sides and and front and back.  Most have the same notions, opinions etc as VKMetz writes.  And I like the guys and can sit and aggravate them for hours.
What pissed me off yesterday about this thread was my initial instinct as an employer.  Social media is not a private domain for any of us.  And in this country the small business owner has the right and ability to hire and fire at will.  I would hope and expect anyone that saw something on a social media site written by someone that represents me would do the same.  And I understand that anything I say here can used to form an opinion by anyone that reads it and can use that for or against me. 
So, while I support VKMetz's right to free speech and his right to live as he pleases, I support my right to pass along anything I see on social media.  As for the Winged For thing:  I was about the third guy that had already sent it to them.  That really aggravated me that someone beat me to the punch.
"just standing on a corner in Winslow Arizona"

V. Kmetz

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #210 on: April 24, 2012, 07:38:18 AM »
Bill McBride hit it perfectly...

"Did V Kmetz ever say anything negative about the Winged Foot members, or just TEPaul?"

Slowly, by assuming more than is there and filling one's own nature of specifics about my big generalities, recent posts like JRPotts are trying to corner me in a position of hate for the people I have worked and work for, when nothing can be further from the truth.

1.  I worked member-rounds at 6 different clubs last year; only 43 of my 140 rounds were at WF. In my second post, I believe, I iterated my admiration for the culture of prosperity and kinship instituted by WFGC towards its Caddie Program; it is why there's is among the best in the country
2.  Many are deluded --EXACTLY the point of my last longer post about the .95% -- to think that clubs, even WF, are all or mostly populated with those of TEP's world, those are rare even in this Met setting of wealth; I have done it for 30 years and so have met all conditions of privilege.
3.  I was a Caddiemaster for 16 of those 30 years, once President of the Met Caddiemaster's association (2006-07) and am well aware of individual and club-inititiatives for the betterment of a caddie's position.

Many who have disdain for my opinions about the larger world, can't fathom how I can do my work (which I know and execute very well) and not be thinking about this.  Again, if you can't understand it, you can't understand it - but I am the best at my trade because the course is for the Golf and this board is (at least in this moment) for this. Same thing with the teaching venue; where we are far too busy with instructing use in the comma splice, the proper MLA format for papers and how to construct a thesis--nobody has time or need to air such opinions.  Golf is a bonder, an accruer of people, an understanding and an appreciating of other people -- not a destroyer; doesn't change the fact that wealth I've never met (or perhaps met) has become a Moloch that makes individual live's disposable.

As I told TEP on the phone Sunday morning, "I have been a barnacle on the ship of the rich since I had hair on my balls...and it has been wonderful; I would not change one thing about my life, despite the fact I can't afford anything right now." My experience of Golfers and club members has been far too enriching.  JK, who apparently read some of the undergrad thesis, seems to begin to understand.

Got to run, but some are placing specific things in my heart about specific people that are simply not true.  Extrapolate all you want from my opinions about the class war, won't change the fact that legion are the numbers that ask if VK is around when it comes time for the Golf.

If you are affluent, by dint of lineage OR hardwork OR both, AND you can look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I have done enough" then go in peace.  I have next to nothing and I still can't do it.  Confronted with both catastrophic and day-in, day out suffering where people who are living on so thin a margin, can be wiped out, literally wiped-out, by a car repair bill - I have no context to forget how but for the grace of something, goes nothing.

Mac, I'm working on my response to your lottery question; I had a big one mostly done but lost it in the wires.

cheers

vk




"The tee shot must first be hit straight and long between a vast bunker on the left which whispers 'slice' in the player's ear, and a wilderness on the right which induces a hurried hook." -

Tim Martin

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #211 on: April 24, 2012, 08:00:40 AM »
Should words have no consequences?  Should people not be held accountable for words they write online?

In this age of social media we must be prepared to have our words have the effect of screaming them from the mountain top for everyone to hear.  I'm rather indifferent about the actions of Mike Y.  On one hand, he has no horse in this race.  On the other, he's holding someone accountable for something made public.

I generally sympathize with people that have less than I do in various aspects of life.  Then something like this happens:
Yesterday at a restaurant my friend wanted to order a bowl of chili.  He saw that they had chili fries and asked the cashier if they had a bowl of chili.  The fellow behind the counter asked the manager, who said no.  I told him to tell his manager that they just lost three customers.  The guy pretty much did his job but the manager really upset me.  It is then that really mean thoughts about fast food being a step up for a group of folks.  

Then I sympathize again because at least they work and may have at one time been dependent.  I don't know.  At least the thread has been good for opening my mind a little even if it doesn't change it.

I wish everyone the very best.  Find happiness not hatred in our small ways.

Never underestimate the worth of a bowl of chili. Heady stuff!

Mac Plumart

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #212 on: April 24, 2012, 08:03:29 AM »
Mac, I'm working on my response to your lottery question

Can't wait!  Should be fun.

Sportsman/Adventure loving golfer.

Patrick_Mucci

Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #213 on: April 24, 2012, 08:07:01 AM »
Yesterday I was in a hospital in NYC consulting with another surgeon.

When he walked in the room, he said, "You look familiar, I think we've met before"
I looked at him and thought that we had met before.  I said, "I don't know where, but I think it may have been at a golf club"
He was a terrifically nice fellow.
After he finished rendering his professional opinion and answering my questions, we started to discuss golf, people we knew in common and golf courses.  He loves Donald Ross courses so I invited him to play at Mountain Ridge with some mutual friends.

On the drive back to my office, while on the GWB, I received a call from a friend of mine from Tulsa, OK.
He informed me that he had just returned from a Member-Guest in California.
He said that his host used to post on GCA.com and had played with me and that when he was playing against another team, one of the other fellows on that team who was from L.A. mentioned that he was originally from NJ.
So my friend from Tulsa said, do you know a guy named Pat Mucci and the fellow from L.A. says, "yeah, he's an old friend and had me to GCGC.  Then his host says, I know Pat, I played with him at one of his GCA.com get togethers.

Now it turns out that the surgeon in NYC belongs to the same club in FL as the guy from Tulsa.
Small world.  And, it turns out that the surgeon and I have a great number of mutual acquaintances through golf.

So my friend goes on to tell me what a great guy the fellow from L.A. Is and how they all had such a good time together.

To which I say, " the golf world is incredibly small,but,  it is populated by so many great guys, and that I've met so many really terrific people from all over America through golf.  He says, "you're right.  You might meet an occasional foul ball, but the overwhelming majority are really great guys".

 I start to think about the terrific  fellows I've met through GCA.com, Ran, Bob Huntley, Mike Sweeney, Gene Greco and many, many others and how all of them are really great guys, guys you enjoy playing with, competing against and hanging out with.  Guys who are "sports", guys who are fun to be with, while at the same time being responsible and charitable.

THEN, I read VKmetz's essays where he says for every decent guy in golf there are eight dirt bags.
His assessment of golfers at private clubs is that the ratio of dirt bags to good guys is 8 to 1.

Certainly different perspectives, but I prefer mine.



« Last Edit: April 24, 2012, 08:09:34 AM by Patrick_Mucci »

John Kavanaugh

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #214 on: April 24, 2012, 08:16:22 AM »
Pat,

Occasionally I will notice how someone I enjoy spending time around while golfing tip the service staff.  I could see why some caddies may think a few of my friends are dirt bags.

On a related note I was recently informed that one of our bag boys is missing a thumb.  It was then I realized that if I had not avoided making eye contact with his hand, which is out most of the time, I would have noticed it myself.  Honestly, I can understand why he may consider me a dirt bag.

Sean_A

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #215 on: April 24, 2012, 08:32:54 AM »
Should words have no consequences?  Should people not be held accountable for words they write online?

In this age of social media we must be prepared to have our words have the effect of screaming them from the mountain top for everyone to hear.  I'm rather indifferent about the actions of Mike Y.  On one hand, he has no horse in this race.  On the other, he's holding someone accountable for something made public.

I generally sympathize with people that have less than I do in various aspects of life.  Then something like this happens:
Yesterday at a restaurant my friend wanted to order a bowl of chili.  He saw that they had chili fries and asked the cashier if they had a bowl of chili.  The fellow behind the counter asked the manager, who said no.  I told him to tell his manager that they just lost three customers.  The guy pretty much did his job but the manager really upset me.  It is then that really mean thoughts about fast food being a step up for a group of folks.  

Then I sympathize again because at least they work and may have at one time been dependent.  I don't know.  At least the thread has been good for opening my mind a little even if it doesn't change it.

I wish everyone the very best.  Find happiness not hatred in our small ways.

Steve S,
I can see why you might think " I have no horse in this race" and I don't know that I agree.
VKMetz would love my neighbors.  I live in a downtown area of a large college town and am surrounded by college professors on both sides and and front and back.  Most have the same notions, opinions etc as VKMetz writes.  And I like the guys and can sit and aggravate them for hours.
What pissed me off yesterday about this thread was my initial instinct as an employer.  Social media is not a private domain for any of us.  And in this country the small business owner has the right and ability to hire and fire at will.  I would hope and expect anyone that saw something on a social media site written by someone that represents me would do the same.  And I understand that anything I say here can used to form an opinion by anyone that reads it and can use that for or against me. 
So, while I support VKMetz's right to free speech and his right to live as he pleases, I support my right to pass along anything I see on social media.  As for the Winged For thing:  I was about the third guy that had already sent it to them.  That really aggravated me that someone beat me to the punch.


Mike

So now you want me to inform you when an employee of yours has a less than positive attitude toward some of this country's gentry?  I still can't get my head around where you are coming from - its completely left field stuff.

Ciao   
New plays planned for 2024: Nothing

Kris Shreiner

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #216 on: April 24, 2012, 08:38:12 AM »
Wow! This thread has it all. Let me remind the participants...errr combatants...the poster, V. Kemtz, only read PART 1! That is like a book reviewer offer an assessment on a work when they've only gotten through half the book. You may not like how it is going, but doesn't it make sense to a least get the complete offering digested before rendering a verdict or opinion?

That said, V.K. may have been a bit harsh in his delivery, but there is a lot of truth in much of what he stated. I must also commend Tom Paul for his candid revelations. In conversations with him, he has often expressed to me some unfortunate negatives that have resulted from how American society and culture evolved in our country. He knows full well the good fortune he was born into. What should he do, give it all away, become a caddie, and rail against his family and ancestors?

Most of his background wouldn't have the frankness and open exchange he chose to share here. The PC nature of many in the upper tier of our culture today disgusts me far more than the real thoughts, right or wrong, that anyone of that realm would share in public.

As my STRONG support of caddie golf is well known to many on this site, VK's comments might differ in some significant ways from my own, but he is certainly entitled to them. The last time I checked this was still America.

Cheers,
Kris 8)
"I said in a talk at the Dunhill Tournament in St. Andrews a few years back that I thought any of the caddies I'd had that week would probably make a good golf course architect. We all want to ask golfers of all abilities to get more out of their games -caddies do that for a living." T.Doak

Mike Hendren

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #217 on: April 24, 2012, 08:53:00 AM »
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« Last Edit: April 24, 2012, 08:55:16 AM by Michael_Hendren »
Two Corinthians walk into a bar ....

Patrick_Mucci

Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #218 on: April 24, 2012, 08:56:11 AM »
Pat,

Occasionally I will notice how someone I enjoy spending time around while golfing tip the service staff.  I could see why some caddies may think a few of my friends are dirt bags.

Being cheap and being a dirt bag are different qualities or characterizations


On a related note I was recently informed that one of our bag boys is missing a thumb.  It was then I realized that if I had not avoided making eye contact with his hand, which is out most of the time, I would have noticed it myself.  Honestly, I can understand why he may consider me a dirt bag.

No comment  ;D


Dan Herrmann

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #219 on: April 24, 2012, 09:06:36 AM »
VK,
I just reread your first post, and I can feel the frustration in your words. 

But I think you are missing the mark.  Big time.

We didn't grow up poor, but we certainly didn't have money for things like golf.   As kids, we played in the neighborhood parks, swam and the public pools, studied our butts off.  Eventually, I discovered golf  and I played at the two town courses on an annual card that cost $60.  To make that money, I started working at 14 years old under the table working at a Dairy Queen for $20 per week.  To me, that was a fortune.

I rode my 3-speed Huffy to the golf course with my bag strapped to a cart that I somehow attached to my bike seat.  (The $55 for the Huffy was won on a radio contest). 

The kids in my neighborhood all had very similar backgrounds.  But we worked our tails off and tried to make something of our lives.  We ended up with a couple of attorneys, some engineers, a USAF general, a graphic artist, a product manager, and IT security guy, and a principal.

VK - do you think that the guys in my neighborhood shouldn't enjoy golf today?  We worked hard, we studied hard, and we lived frugally and charitably.  We each give back in our own way.

I was 30 before I ever took a caddie and it was one of the coolest things I had ever experienced.   Today, on those rare occasions I can take a looper, I try to make his day as pleasant as can be just because I like to have people have a better day than they were expecting. 

That's called "kindness", and it has ZERO to do with how much money one has.  I've seen rich jerks and poor jerks.  But most people are kind and really want the best for others.

Tom Paul is a kind person.   If Tom didn't have a buck to his name, I'm betting he'd still be a kind person.

So please don't go assuming that the people mentioned in his article weren't kind and caring.

VK - This world is damn unfair sometimes.  But it's how you react to those sucker punches that makes you a man or a wimp.  Not the amount of money in your wallet.

The reason Tom's story is so important is that it lays out a foundation on which golf clubs were founded, constructed, and operated.  And that understanding is important to understanding the golden era of golf course architecture and, honestly, the so-called dark ages of GCA that followed.

Jud_T

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #220 on: April 24, 2012, 09:09:23 AM »
There are dirtbags in the men's grill and in the caddyshack.  There are dirtbags in all walks of life.  Hell, there's probably even 1 or 2 on this board... ;)   Until I've had VK as a caddie I will defer judgement on his professionalism as I hope he would on me as part of the evil capitalist empire...
« Last Edit: April 24, 2012, 09:12:55 AM by Jud Tigerman »
Golf is a game. We play it. Somewhere along the way we took the fun out of it and charged a premium to be punished.- - Ron Sirak

Jeff_Brauer

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #221 on: April 24, 2012, 09:47:07 AM »
A friend of mine takes to Facebook for similar 1% rants.  He presumed most wealth was inherited and thus "unearned" by "undeserving" people.  Not knowing what measures there were out the, I reviewed the Forbes 400 list.  As far as I could tell, about 70% were first generation wealthy rather than inherited wealth.  I view that as a good thing - America is still the land of opportunity.  Not sure if that is representative of all the 1%, but I bet it is.

I also have always believed that the US having too few millionares was a bigger problem than having too many!
Jeff Brauer, ASGCA Director of Outreach

Anthony Butler

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False Equivalency
« Reply #222 on: April 24, 2012, 10:20:09 AM »
Missing from the posts accusing people of prematurely judging Mike Young's 'character' is that no-one is basing it on the opinion he holds, but his actions of forwarding Vinniue Kmetz's thoughts regarding Tom Paul's interview directly to someone at Winged Foot with the express purpose of causing damage to his future employment prospects at the club... I don't need to know much more about someone to see that as the act of a spiteful and hate-filled person and not something that fits in here at GCA.com.

I don't happen to agree with much of what Pat Mucci says,  but I don't worry he's going to forward my opinions to Ginnie Rometti with a note about the kind of people they hire at IBM...

And that's part of the problem.. this false equivalency between differences of opinion and behavior that is simply beyond the bounds of what is good and decent behavior.

I don't think I'd be working at IBM if I didn't notionally agree with the concept of capitalism and the accumulation of wealth. On the other hand, I believe that with great power and wealth comes a larger commitment to the good of society. Right now, it seems that many individuals and corporations would rather pay their political flunkies to help them evade paying their fair share or meeting their responsibilities.  I don't hold either party completely blameless in this. But one party isn't even making the pretense of serving the common good.

Our society is only sustainable when those who have access to the power levers think about how it can benefit everyone who participates... not how you use it to disenfranchise people (voter 'registration'), settle scores (defunding longstanding womens' health programs like Planned Parenthood because they don't fit into your narrow ideological worldview), or exclude other points of view on how the things should be decided (outlawing collective bargaining rights).

For all the Atlas Shugged devotees here, there is a huge distance between working for what you have and every-man-for-himself.

It's one thing to be all chummy to people from 'different walks of life' at your golf club. Quite another to extend those courtesies to someone who doesn't know you, is a different color than you, from a different socio-economic class, expresses their opinions in ways you can't understand and may not like you very much...

« Last Edit: April 24, 2012, 10:44:18 AM by Anthony Butler »
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John Kavanaugh

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #223 on: April 24, 2012, 10:31:30 AM »
One of the most difficult aspects of managing people is limiting their downtime together.  Caddies spend far too much time together not working.  It breeds what we read here.

I have the same problem with truck drivers.  They are fine hard working people if you keep them apart.  As a matter of fact, caddies and truck drivers have much in common.  Stop at any interstate truck stop and sit quietly in a booth next to a group of rolling behemoths.  You will hear the same quasi-intellectual gravy drooling dribble found on these pages.  Caddies are thinner though, I give them that.

SL_Solow

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Re: Is it even worth it?
« Reply #224 on: April 24, 2012, 10:34:15 AM »
I managed to restrain myself and avoid this fracas for 9 pages.  My better judgment tells me I should continue that policy but I suppose its hard to stay away from a thread that causes Dave Wigler to resurface.  Before delving into the topic, David, isn't it about time you played a little golf in Chicago?  Let us know when you will be in town.

Turning to the substance of this thread, I think it illustrates the folly of off topic discussions.  Make no mistake about it, I enjoy political discussion as much as the next fellow.  I have friends from all over the political spectrum, both to the left and the right of my position.  But this is not where I come to have those discussions.  Moreover, I have found that it is rare that one sees significant change in another's overall political philosophy, which appears to be the focus here.  These types of discussions are usually most productive when discrete issues are discussed and the interplay between political philosophy and particular objectives can be explored.  But for whatever reason, periodically we can't seem to avoid these detours.

Incidentally, I believe that the nature of the interview encouraged this type of dialogue.  While Tom has a wealth of knowledge and exhibits extraordinary devotion to GCA, most of the interview was only tangentially related to the subject.  It was largely a personal memoir about a time and a segment of society with which most of us have little direct familairity.  To the extent that members of the strata  which he describes were the dominant actors in the development of many prominent clubs, tournaments and golf associations, they clearly had an important effect on the development of the game and its venues.  But the first portion of the interview had more to do with a particular social class than it did with the game.  So by creating an interview of this type, Ran invited a discussion outside the realm of GCA.

But I did not read it as suggesting that the stratification was right (or wrong) or as a lament for the passing of that time.  Rather, I saw it as Tom's describing a world in which he lived and the values he observed, some of which I suspect he may wish were in greater supply today.  As the grandchild of immigrants who came to this country during the great immigration wave in the first 20 years of the 20th century, I have no first hand knowledge of that society.  Certainly my grandparents and my parents would have been barred from participation for a variety of reasons, ranging from financial to ethnic to religious.  But I take great pride and satisfaction that  in our society  families like mine, through the dint of opportunity, luck, hard work and perhaps a little talent were able to move into the mainstream  and enjoy a modicum of success.  I believe that one of the greatest challenges facing our country is to make certain that the opportunity for upward mobility continues.  It lends legitimacy to our democracy and vitality to our economy.  Coupled with the basic political freedoms embodied in the Constitution,it is the ultimate reason to "buy in" to our system.   So while I understand Mr. Kmetz' impassioned critique of the perceived  societal unfairness exhibited in the interview, I think he misperceives the intent.  I suspect that he also overstates the problem although I do not pretend that we have achieved anywhere near my ideal of social or economic justice.

A few other random observations.  I too read Karl Marx, starting at the early age of 13.  I continue to believe that his analysis was a brilliant critique of 19th century capitalism which continued into the early 20th century.  But Marx was unable to anticipate that capitalism would evolve; that owners of the means of production would find a way to "share" with the proletariat absent a revolution.  John Kenneth Galbreath in "Countervailing Power" explains some of the reasons including the rise of organized labor.  Marx, as a follower of Hegel, could not conceive that anything less than a revolution would be a strong enough antithesis to pure capitalism to cause change.  Now, we see continued evolution and change.  I am not enough of an economist or prognosticator to suggest where it is going.  But most of the underlying motivations remain the same.

RJ, I would love to talk about what you call "balkanization" in our society offline.  I use different terms but I share many of the same views.  However, I am not sure that it is that much different from prior experience.

Finally, as much as I like and respect Mike Young's contributions to the board I think he got it wrong this time.  This board should be a place where individuals who share a common interest can come and speak freely.  So long as we treat each other with mutual respect, there should be no consequences for what we say except to the extent that our fellows may think less of us or our intellect.  In that sense, it is akin to the "bull", or in my era, "rap" sessions of our youths.  Mr. Kmetz did nothing that should impact on his performance at work.  If his views "bubble up" and infect his relationship with his employers, they will know.  But if every employee who resented his boss' position, intelligence, morality and the like were terminated, the amount of turnover would be staggering.  While in a perfect world, everyone would have a job they lliked with people they respected, we all know it isn't that way and people have to eat.  So barring the ability to create a society similar to that envisioned by utopian socialists like Sainte- Simon, we will have to accept the fact that some people work with those that they don't like or respect.  So long as they do their jobs they should be left alone.  While punishing them for their views may be permissable, it doesn't make that act right or honorable.  Sometimes exposure to the "enemy" leads to understanding.  Maybe Mr. Kmetz' views will evolve.  Time will tell.

As usual, I have gone on too long.  Enough for now.
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