Craig,
I have never been to Hawaii (Tough to make a trip from Detroit) so I cannot comment on Kapalua. I hope one day I can make it and comment on it as well as Mauna Kea.
IMO and in alphabetical order as to the 20 better courses I get ASU Karsten Course, Boulders South, DM Chiracuah, DM Renegade, Estancia, Greyhawk Talon, Greyhawk Raptor, Las Sendas (A very good example because it is a similar course), Legend Trail, Raven at South Mountain, Superstition Mountain Lost Gold, Talking Stick North, Troon G&CC, Troon North Monument, Troon North Pinnacle. OK I lied! I can only think of 15 I like better (Limiting myself to those I have played or walked). I have heard good things about the other course at the Apache Stronghold, Boulders, the other three courses at Desert Mountain, Desert Highlands, Gold Canyon and others though so I am not sure my statement is untrue just that I cannot make it with first hand certainty.