Ben:
I can't wait to see the other 17 lessons. Did he really come up with 18? How fortuitous!
As someone who has made a career out of pissing people off, I would like to offer a few observations on this first lesson.
1. Golf course architecture does not exactly carry the same responsibilities as being a military commander. There is plenty of room in the marketplace for milquetoast designs -- even though there are already a lifetime supply of such courses. Still, they aren't going to get anybody killed.
2. Golf course architects [with rare exceptions] aren't the owner of their own designs. If we were, then we could all seek higher truth. But in real life, we are generally NOT at the top of the chain of command ... we are one rung down. In the military, that would mean we must tell our commanders the truth as we see it, but we must abide by their orders.
3. In our wars, there are a lot more than two sides. There is room for a variety of viewpoints to thrive in the industry.
4. Pete Dye never worried about pissing off his clients ... he jousted with most of them on an everyday basis. It was part of the game with Pete, and part of the reason he was so good. He never had a client that wouldn't put up with it; he sorted those guys out way before he signed a contract. He ignored their calls!! If they went away and hired someone else, he didn't sweat it. If they stuck it out until he talked to them, then Pete had the upper hand.
5. Even among architects, no one is ever appointed General, but it's much harder to show leadership when you are at the bottom of the food chain trying to work your way up. I had several early clients who did not appreciate what I had observed from watching Mr. Dye, and for a while there I was afraid it would keep me from having a productive career. Luckily, I also had some key supporters who had good words to say about me when others did not; and I was very lucky to have made an impression on the people who were more important and taken seriously. [Well, it wasn't all luck; I made an effort to cultivate people who were of similar mind, and when they wound up becoming influential in the golf business, I was in the right place after all.]
6. The most important thing I had to learn was that everyone cares about money, but that can't be your raison d'etre. The best developers are the ones who want to do something great. They care about how much it costs, but their first goal is to build a great course ... so that's what they want to hear about in the beginning. If you build a great course and save them money, too, they will tell your next potential client all about it; but you've got to deliver the great course or it was all a waste of money to them.
7. Mike speaks the truth about the golf business ... if you are doing something different, and you are really onto something good, you are dangerous to the status quo and you can expect to be attacked in private. But the establishment only gets pissed off when you are really onto something, so that's all a good sign!