I have played the Fairfax course and it was ok. I think the course gets a bit crowded. I think there may be better alternatives, depending what you what in a club and where you live. Have you chosen a suburb yet?
Not yet, though there are some we like more than others (and golf is not going to be the only/main factor). Our favorite area is Chain Bridge/Arlingwood, but I do not think we are ready to fork over $70k+ for a course (Ross or not), particularly one that is as narrow as WGCC is.
We're essentially looking at Yorktown, W-L, McLean, George Mason, and BCC school districts (pretty much in that order), with a preference to having as short a commute to the city as possible. We're less open to being in Wakefield or Stuart.
To get my wife on board, I think we'd need a place with around a 25-30k initiation and $500/mo max fees, that is reasonable enough to replace a health club and swim club. It'd also need to have at least some diversity in its membership (a club that is majority-minority, such as Woodmont, would be an exception, but Woodmont is more than we'd be looking to spend anyways). Obviously, clubs are not transparent as to their cost structure (e.g., no idea whether Belle Haven or Kenwood would be feasible), but it appears the options would be Army-Navy, something out in Reston, Mount Vernon, or National Golf Club at Tantallon, and the others are not exactly close to the places we'd most like to live. This is a problem for the reasons you and Bill point out.
Essentially, it's appearing likely that given the places we want to live, the choice is really going to be between ANCC and no club at all. The question is whether the quality of the architecture and the ease of getting on, playing a round, and getting off is worth it. Otherwise, it will require treks out to Twin Lakes/Laurel Hill/Westfield to play. With added travel time and long weekend rounds, that would really cut down on my opportunities to golf once the kids start coming - which is what is causing the interest in moving out of the city in the first instance.
If only Prince George had good schools. Ah, tradeoffs.
Thanks, everyone.