Sandy,
You're getting some good calls with: Passionfish(more unique, value wine-focused, superb, casual fine dining in Pacific Grove), Tap Room( not exceptional beer selection, perfect but pricey in the Lodge @Pebble Beach),Roy's ( progressive cuisine , but nothing distinctive on the beer front @Spanish Bay) Mission Ranch( great spot, beers are generally the normal offerings) and Cassanova(more a wine spot,high-end in Carmel)...it depends what your looking for atmosphere and price wise, though there are NO cheap outings in Carmel or the Peninsula proper in the upper tier locales.
There is a newer pub-grill in Carmel that I quite enjoy called Brophy's that has quality food and a nice mix of non-typical beer offerings along with the usual suspects. Forge in the Forest is another cool spot with an excellent beer selection and the food was solid the last I heard. Jack London's, a favorite haunt of locals and tour player/caddies during AT&T week is a good bar, but I can't vouch for the vittles.
My suggestions would be...
Passionfish dinner for a superb meal at a steal... price-wise. Their beer selection is fair, though the owners Ted and Cindy, could have the nice surprise or two in their offerings that should delight...they know their stuff.
Mission Ranch, especially if you get there in the early evening prior to sun-down, has the best setting, decent beer selection, good food and you might get to see Clint or chat up some fossils at the piano bar.
Brophy's for a lunch or happy hour is a good call. A nice post-meal walk on the beach(perhaps with a cigar) is right down the hill.
IM me if you need more info, I lived and caddied out there for 11+ years and became a bit of a foodie thanks to my time there!
Cheers,
Kris