TD,
First, you are being a great sport about this. No wonder this board loves ya!
Second, of all the responses I have read, I would say Dan Kelly's is the most likely thing someone could teach any gca - to really see a course via the average female players eyes. Not just you, but ALL of us. And, the more clients urge you/us to build "championship courses" the less that viewpoint gets considered, almost inherently.
I suspect that if we had gca's playing with a typical group of 4 women, we would come away with some real nuggets about what golf is really like, rather than what we imagine its like from the way back tees for pros.
PS - Enjoy Paris. I didn't find the people there rude at all, as some stereotypes would suggest. One lady went out of her way to let me follow her to the airport when I had a flight to catch and was lost. I stopped at a Texaco and in a panic, it was amazing that my high school french came back to me so quickly to ask directions! Reminded me of that old Steve Martin routine...."Those french, it seems like they have a different word for everything!"
Cheers.