So this is a topic that i've given a lot of thought to, as i've searched throughout the MET NYC area for the past two years to join a club. I currently drive up to 75 minutes to one of 3 or 4 good public courses, getting out at the crack of dawn mid-week. I've wanted to join a club because there is something nice about settling down; i've dated, had one round stands, some long term relationships, some pleasant reunions after a break, returns to old flings....but there is something about having a place that you get to know intimately, where you have the consistent experience of something you appreciate and love, but that at the same time changes day to day in subtle ways in its challenge and opportunity (am i taking the marriage analogy too far?). Here is what I have considered.
1. It's first about the course. If it's not a really enjoyable, interesting course, I won't even look at it. If i'm going to put down the cash, it just has to be a really special course that I"m going to WANT to play day in and day out over the other options. This speaks to architecture, walkability, the balance between challenge and playability, and feasibility: I won't consider a course where i can't walk, that i can't get to in under 35 minutes, and where you can't get a mid-week round finished comfortably under 4 hours (I don't play much on weekends).
2. The financial picture: the up front nut, the monthlies, and the unknown unknowns (assessments) are all factors. Is it a club with a lot of debt to finance, a diminishing membership left to carry the financial load, a club with a very wealthy membership to whom a hefty assessment does not hurt so much, and club with a history of regular or significant assessments?
3. The "hang" - i love that expression, but could care less about it. I love playing with down to earth, fun partners, and i love playing alone. As long as no one is going to give me a hard time, make me miserable when i play with them, and as long as i can get out when i need to get out, with people whom i'll by and large enjoy, i'm good.
4. Pool and tennis? why not.