I don't have a problem with someone keeping score. I don't think anyone is saying that here. My argument is that it has become too much of the focus. I think the singular focus of par is a bad way to gauge the game for 95% of the golfing population. For the 5% that are legitimate sub-5 handicap golfers, that can play well in tournaments, or post a number at their member-guest, I'm fine with it.
The problem that develops when stroke count is such an integral part of the game, is that those that have no business worrying about score, start worrying about their score. It leads to market overload of any number of products promised to lower your score, slow play, over-expectation in regards to conditioning, etc. I believe that for a majority of the golfing population, focus on medal scoring muddies the water.
What this has to do with John's friend is long connection, but I'll try to make it. My overlying problem with his assessment of Old Mac is, "who gives a flip?" I feel that so many good to great players look down on a course that allows poorer players to have fun and score decent for no good reason. Is he just mad that he can't self gratify himself for his abilities against other golfers? Where is it written that great architecture stratifies the abilities of golfers? I thought the US Open was made to identify the best player, not a resort course in Oregon.