Reading this thread just reminds me how fortunate we are in GB&I, Europe, etc. Those numbers are just astonishing!
If Americans want to see a club model works, then look no further than any of the large-medium clubs in GB&I, Europe, NZ, Aus., etc.
You need to focus on the golf and forget all the add-on bits. The expectations of US golfers seem to me to be totally unreasonable. Is a club like that described above focussed on golf or something else?
If I had to pay $500/month, I'd have to give up the game. How much of a disposable income does one need to be able to fork out $500/month. Would you need to be earning $200-k/year? If that is the case, then golf has totally lost its way in the US.
How does my club manage?
My annual fee is about €550 for a 27-hole course.
Entrance fee is about €1000 (non-refundable)
The club makes about €350-k in green fees per year.
Club have about 10-11 staff: 3 (2 Pros & 1 Pro Shop), 1 club manager, 1 admin. secretary, 5-6 course staff.
The green fee is €50 (€35-40 for guest playing with a member; no limit on how offten you have guests)
Lunch is €8 (optional: no obligation to spend a certain amount each month)
Competition fee $8
About 1000 members, with perhaps 150-200 Juniors.